- When in doubt, just take the next small step.
- When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
- Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
- Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
- Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
- Be eccentric NOW. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
- Time heals almost everything. Give time, time.
- Forgive everyone Everything.
- Always choose life.
- Frame every so-called disaster with these words “In five years, will this matter?”.
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
Week One - 10 Lessons For Well-Being
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Friendships Are A Source Of Well-Being
Having a friend that you can talk to is one of the most important tools for happiness. Sometimes there are things that you don't want to talk to family about. You need a different perspective, a new take on the problem. A friend can help you see the world differently and open up new options.
True friends don't judge you. They may not agree with everything you say, but they won't think less of you if for believing differently. Differences are what make great friendships! It would be very boring if we all thought alike all the time.
Real friends will be there when you really need them. When you have a monumental problem, a real friend will drop everything and help, because they know you'd do the same for them.
Friends make you laugh. We already know that laughter is wonderful medicine. Sharing laughs with a friend is the best. It could be years later and a word or look will bring up a shared experience. Inside jokes are always cool.
If you have a true friend, hold on to them. Let them know that you treasure their friendship. Be there for them and help any way you can. True friends really are a blessing and true source of well-being.
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Tips For Creating A Better Body Image
Experiment with what weight feels comfortable to you, rather than trying primarily to be thin. Find your "set point," a weight where your body feels comfortable and will fight to remain. Accept weight variations throughout the life cycle.
Most of us judge each of our body parts individually -- my thighs are too fat, my breasts too droopy, my lips too thick. Try experiencing your body as a whole, rather than as separate parts that need improvement.
Instead of trying to conform to the rigid beauty ideal promoted in the media, experiment with finding a style or look that expresses something about yourself and feels good to you. When you exercise, pay attention to the rhythms and sensations you experience as you move. While exercise is often promoted as a way to lose weight and achieve an idealized body shape, it also often helps us feel good in our bodies, which in turn can help us accept and even celebrate how we look.
Reject the imposed ideals that womanhood must be suppressed. If you have a curvy body, embrace your curves as symbols of power and pride. Notice how much time you spend worrying about your looks instead of being aware of what is going on inside of you or around you. Try practicing mindfulness, a technique used in meditation and yoga.
Give up the media for a week. Forego reading magazines (especially fashion magazines!), watching television, or surfing the Internet. When you get the urge to click the remote control, go for a walk or invite a friend over for tea and conversation. At the end of the week, notice if you feel differently about yourself.
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Inspired Wellness - Amazing Grace
I hope you enjoy my video and I would love to hear your feedback and your thoughts!